Lovefest: The Origins: or, How We Finally Fell in Love
Well, we'll start at the beginning...
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a dialogue about falling in love and celebrating the love of your life with the day(s) of your dreams...
LoveFest, a.k.a. Alex and Erica, officially began on 5 October 2007. Erica proposed to Alex on 12 April 2009 and Alex proposed to Erica on 11 July 2009. Since then, they have continued to propose to each other--in kitchens, in queues, in concerts--while planning their two weddings for 2010, each in their hometowns in Cornwall, England, and Northern California, USA.
These pages are the journey towards two beautiful, feminist, queer, eco-conscious, people-oriented, down-right-dancing weddings/civil partnerships/commitment ceremonies. We hope you enjoy the party.
We met in our second year of college at UC Santa Cruz in the classic way that couple's meet: through our friends. At the time, Erica was working for Kresge College and Alex was friends with everyone who was working for Kresge College. Erica's first memory is of Alex in her red pleather tail coat at a Kresge event, where Alex didn't pay attention to her. Alex's first memory is queueing up with Erica for the Giant Dipper at the Santa Cruz Boardwalk, where Erica didn't pay attention to her.
Alex was at once fascinated and intimated by Erica's awesomeness...and the crush began. Of this crush, Erica was unaware: second year was BUSY, and then she left for Ireland.
Third year went by in Ireland (e) and the Brommer House (A). Summer came and went. Alex and Erica re-met at a bonfire on the beach in September--although Alex was more taken by Erica's Irish boots than anything else. They became proper friends this time through bonfires, nights out on Pacific Avenue, and times with the 'Kresge Crew/Kids'.
Then we graduated. Erica needed a place to live in the fall for her last quarter at UCSC and Alex decided to stay in Santa Cruz until Christmas. So Erica moved in to the Ocean St. House in September with Alex, Christy and Mallory (taking Corinne's old room). Well, thank goodness.
So, when did we FINALLY fall in love, you might ask?
For Alex, it was snuggled up on a couch reading short stories to one another; doing the New York Times Monday crossword puzzle; and the cincher was dancing in the kitchen to Nina Simone.
For Erica, she knew it best when one fall morning she woke up and couldn't think of anything else but "She's the one."
Now how we managed to stay together across an ocean, living in a trailer, working in a pub, getting into post-graduate programmes and moving countries is a whole OTHER story you can just ask us for at the wedding...